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When to Send out Invitations-Timing

Invitation Timing

Whether you’re mailing invitations or inviting guests by phone, timing is key. Send an invitation too late and the guest may already be booked; send it too early and it might be misplaced or forgotten. The following guidelines aren’t set in stone, but will give you an idea of when to mail various types of invitations.

The Event When to Invite
Anniversary party 3 to 6 weeks
Bar or Bat Mitzvah 2 month
Bon Voyage party Last minute to 3 weeks
Casual party Same day to 2 weeks
Charity Ball 6 weeks to 3 months
Christmas party 1 month
Cocktail party 1 to 4 weeks
Debutante Ball 6 weeks to 3 months
Formal dinner 3 to 6 weeks
Graduation party 3 weeks
Housewarming party A few days to 3 weeks
Informal dinner A few days to 3 weeks
Lunch or Tea A few days to 2 weeks
Thanksgiving dinner 2 weeks to 2 months

Because of the large amount of children in Miami and Broward, I would suggest to mail 2 months in advance, especially if you haven’t sent a Save the Date which I am a big fan off.  My children’s school keeps track of the Bar/Bat Mitzvah dates which really avoid many conflicts.  I would suggest you pick a responsible person and do the same.(EP)



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